But since people like me who are a minority (own homes with a single wide driveway) we get stuck paying for someone elses idea of how the city should look.
I recommend that you contact the Community Development Department at the number listed on the bottom of their letter and voice your concerns. It is not uncommon for bureaucrats to make policy decisions without considering the full repercussions of them, especially in situations that are not typical (such as places where driveways are only single wide).
Your argument that these laws are designed to protect other property owners doesn't hold water here.
The whole point of their campaign is to raise property values for homeowners. They are trying to make it more difficult for property owners who violate zoning or who increase the occupancy of their properties without putting in appropriate infrastructure (such as wider driveways). The city appears to be giving property owners a chance to remedy problems before they start enforcing these rules.
And for "my specific rights" they are rapidly disappearing.
The specific rights that property owners are entitled to are potentially changeable. They certainly vary from place to place. For example, in some rural areas, there are almost no restrictions on what can be built on a property, but in a large city, there are severe restrictions placed on property ownership. On top of that, the property owned is often better defined in cities (often as a finite three-dimensional region, although even rural properties have realizable limits both up and down). To own some item of property is actually to be entitled to the rights of ownership, which are unique (meaning that only one person or entity can possess them), but those rights are always limited.
Is there any subject ,to whit ,you have no opinion?
Probably. There are some things that I haven't heard about. There also are subjects about which I have very little opinion. As for the know-it-all thing, I know a lot, and I often do additional "research" prior to completing posts. I often find my posts changing as a result. For example, on the parking thread, I was going to say that there are no unilateral restrictions regarding parking on the street, but then I read through the code and found a few that might apply.
I think that you may have an incorrect notion that I just disagree with everyone, but that's because it's hard to recognize shades of ideology that are all in the same direction. This is similar to how everything feels hot to someone who is very cold or how everyone just seems to be short to a 7 footer. The point is that, while I am very active politically, I fall into a part of the political spectrum that is normally inhabited by people who are fairly indifferent or at least inactive politically. The end result is that I tend to disagree with almost every pundit. What's worse, I often disagree with the justifications that people use to defend their positions, even when I agree with the positions.
So, in answer to your question, no. There aren't any subjects on which I have no opinion.